Don't speak out all at once. I was all of eighteen and home from leave from the Marines and one of my friends invited me to go out partying. OK so the next thing we're in the car parked in front of some grocery store and a cop pulls up and asks us what we're doing. Next thing he starts searching the car without our consent and finds the baggie of weed. I was eighteen so I got to go to County Jail but my buddy was a 16 so he went home. To make a long story short our lawyer got me off on an illegal search. Marines never found out about it otherwise I would've been disciplined there too.