A good day to recognize the powerful role Fathers play in the lives of children. The role of Mom has widely been known and historically the parent most discussed. I find it sort of strange that it's really only in recent times ( last 4-5 decades) that the very important role of Dads has even been studied and discussed. Traditionally Mom would be home with the kids with Dad out working all day as the "provider." But times have changed as we all know with many homes having both a working mom and dad.
Studies show a Father in the life of a child is so important emotionally, learning discipline, in education and IQ, and in personal relationships as the child grows into an adult. My own Dad grew up in a home where you did not talk at the dinner table, no one said I love you, and discipline was harsh. He passed at 39 when I was 16. I received plenty of the same harsh discipline from him because that's all he knew. I was tough on my 3 sons as well. Demanding they focus on school, giving their best at anything they did but not not treating them harsh if they didn't get the "A" so long as they gave an honest effort. We did and still do say I love you frequently.
I made lots of mistakes. No book on how to do this stuff in the real world. Did lots of good too. My sons are the best of friends, well rounded, well educated, hard working, GENTLEMEN most of the time.
No gift they could buy me today is better than what I just wrote....................
Studies show a Father in the life of a child is so important emotionally, learning discipline, in education and IQ, and in personal relationships as the child grows into an adult. My own Dad grew up in a home where you did not talk at the dinner table, no one said I love you, and discipline was harsh. He passed at 39 when I was 16. I received plenty of the same harsh discipline from him because that's all he knew. I was tough on my 3 sons as well. Demanding they focus on school, giving their best at anything they did but not not treating them harsh if they didn't get the "A" so long as they gave an honest effort. We did and still do say I love you frequently.
I made lots of mistakes. No book on how to do this stuff in the real world. Did lots of good too. My sons are the best of friends, well rounded, well educated, hard working, GENTLEMEN most of the time.
No gift they could buy me today is better than what I just wrote....................