I think it is unfair for some people to attack this particular kid because he went public. According to SI, the kid came out of theOriginally posted by Azar:
Varkas,Originally posted by advarkas:
To me, this is much to do about nothing... This young man Sam felt like he needed to make an national announcement that he was gay for whatever reasons. Good for him, the story should end there. Now, the national media is making this more of a story of this than I believe is warranted. I don't care what gays and lesbians do in their private time because I don't care what 99% of straight people do in their private time. If gays and lesbians can be moral, productive, law-abiding citizens, then that is all I care about- everything else is nothing but noise to me.
As someone who grew up in South Florida and lives in Downtown Fort Lauderdale (which is about 5 miles south of the City of Wilton Manors, a well-known openly gay and lesbian city), I have become tolerant, and to a degree sympathetic of gay and lesbian given some of the prejudice which they have faced over the years. However, I do not appreciate having the national media and the mass gay and lesbian groups consistently force feed the rest of the country all of this gay and lesbian stuff which is often trivial.
If there is a legitimate national issue involving gays and lesbians, such as marriage or the adopting children, then those issues warrant discussions from both sides. However, an athlete stating that he is gay is about as important to the average American as the Winter Olympics.
It should never have started with the announcement. So you're gay, be gay and do you! Why the big promotional announcement right before draft? This is intentional and strategic also. You don't think it was known that this would draw national media attention? And now the NFL is on the spot with LGBT because if he does not get drafted being a talented player, can you imagine the stink it's going to cause (no pun intended)? This is not about tolerance, no one is saying gay people can't be gay or should not have the same rights as everyone. In fact, other than marriage in some states they have exactly the same rights as everyone. This is about the hoopla, the celebration, and the cheering which equates to a gay promotion every time someone "comes out". If you like men, live your life but you ain't gotta market that sh*t. Just stand by and keep watching, you'll see where this madness is going......
closet to his teammates years ago...as far back as 2009
with guys in his signing class and then, officially, he came out to his
entire team this year in August. I don't believe he is self-promoting by going
public now. He actually chose not to comment publicly in a newspaper
story in Missouri back at the beginning of this season.
By going public
now, he is doing what he needs
to do to protect himself from a whisper campaign of scouts who were
recently asking questions about his dating life leading up to the
combine. By announcing it now, he made a wise business
calculation--it gives teams time (1) to come to grips with something they
would have discovered anyway, (2) to talk to existing players, and (3)
to ask him about it during the interview process. The teams would have found out about it anyway, so he is getting out in front of the story.
And, of
course, some people will try to whore out his story for the benefit of
their own particular political or social cause (both pro-LGBT and
anti-LGBT). But, this is a kid who was honest with his teammates and
friends about who he was, and he was honest with them at a time when he
did not stand to personally benefit from it. I don't think he should be
vilified for that.
At the end of the day, he wants to play football. He's good at football. His teammates at Mizzou knew who he was, and all reports are that he was a great teammate. I hope he gets the same chance to succeed in the league as anyone else.