Serious questions for my brothers, I need your

[biggee04]

Help with a scenario, I have been dating this girl for about 6 months I thought she was the one until I got to really know her, she has some great qualities for a wife but I'm not physically attracted to her at all.... Nothing, zero, you out of here.......! What should a brotha do?

 

[Strack_Cane]

Can't fit a round peg in a square hole.

 

[CFSteve]

Man you know the answer to that. It's not even fair to her if you feel that way. A woman deserves to be told she's beautiful and the only one for you. If you can't say and do that both emotionally and physically, you've gotta walk away.

"Not physically attracted at all". No doubt man. You've gotta move on. BTW. I've done a lot of couples counseling.

 

[tommycane]

Careful biggie...
Married lasts a long time..!

 

[l0blunt]

Help with a scenario, I have been dating this girl for about 6 months I thought she was the one until I got to really know her, she has some great qualities for a wife but I'm not physically attracted to her at all.... Nothing, zero, you out of here.......! What should a brotha do?

Sounds to me like you've already made up your mind, as well as wasted 6 months of your life. Especially if you're not attracted to her at all. Honestly, six months is a long time to come to that conclusion.

 

[zeski78]

she will figure it out if you're heart is not in it 100%

 

[Canesman511]

If you're coming to Canesport for dating advice it's OVA!

 

[suddensam1968]

Help with a scenario, I have been dating this girl for about 6 months I thought she was the one until I got to really know her, she has some great qualities for a wife but I'm not physically attracted to her at all.... Nothing, zero, you out of here.......! What should a brotha do?

End it quickly and don't look back

But don't insult her either

 

[Canesman511]

 

[Canetogo]

Run with a smile, and let her down easy.

Always handle it where you could still look her in the eyes if you had to. She would respect you for that, no matter how it turns out.

Guess what?....she knows how you feel. It's called "woman's intuition"...a very lethal thing if not handled right.
Do it with Class... You will recover....

 

[biggee04]

You guys are hilarious, but great at the same time, thanks for your responses

 

[honeyiv]

Help with a scenario, I have been dating this girl for about 6 months I thought she was the one until I got to really know her, she has some great qualities for a wife but I'm not physically attracted to her at all.... Nothing, zero, you out of here.......! What should a brotha do?

Say, "Listen sweetie, I want to marry you. All I ask for is during our married years if I can keep a separate dime-piece on the side." If she really loves you she'll understand and go along with it.

 

[BreakingCane]

One or two bagger?

 

[Arlo3]

Biggee- I'd do it quickly, you're not only wasting your time but hers too.

 

[Brooks B]

You guys are hilarious, but great at the same time, thanks for your responses

I hope she doesn't subscribe to Canesport!

 

[irwinn]

Help with a scenario, I have been dating this girl for about 6 months I thought she was the one until I got to really know her, she has some great qualities for a wife but I'm not physically attracted to her at all.... Nothing, zero, you out of here.......! What should a brotha do?

If you're over 75 and can't f**k, marry her. If not, the one ingredient that makes all the other things work is.........missing. You need to break this off, she too needs someone else.

 

[BreakingCane]

If you're over 75 and can't f**k, marry her. If not, the one ingredient that makes all the other things work is.........missing. You need to break this off, she too needs someone else.

Or a new mask.

 

[Brooks B]

You guys are hilarious, but great at the same time, thanks for your responses

If you in Alabama I KNOW the pickings are VERY slim bro. I don't know what's going on here....

 

[vivijane]

Make sure BOBO has a raincoat on..........

 

[honeyiv]

I hope she doesn't subscribe to Canesport!

Shit. That would be bad. So bad.

 

[honeyiv]

I can GUARANTEE THAT we will win the Natty in baseball. Gary? Am I wrong?

 

[ZEKEMUG]

You gotta figure out why you were there in the first place. Then why you stayed 6 months. You're either lonelier than you thought or got some Male Biological Clock thing going on.

 

[canescanes1]

its time to move on bro

 

[3rd Cane]

Help with a scenario, I have been dating this girl for about 6 months I thought she was the one until I got to really know her, she has some great qualities for a wife but I'm not physically attracted to her at all.... Nothing, zero, you out of here.......! What should a brotha do?

Unfortunately, you have to move on. Problems will arise down the road if you are not attracted to her. Part of having a mate is so she can be your best friend but the other half is ...........//// yeah, you have to step

 

[tcane58]

Help with a scenario, I have been dating this girl for about 6 months I thought she was the one until I got to really know her, she has some great qualities for a wife but I'm not physically attracted to her at all.... Nothing, zero, you out of here.......! What should a brotha do?

There are many instances in life where you need to think of others before you think about yourself........this is not one of them.....lol.

 

[289fia]

The VERY GOOD THING is that you recognize it ... don't stay in that "relationship" another day. Let her go .. to find someone else for her .. and you find somebody your are attracted to and want to be with forever .. period. No brainer. Another thing .. if YOU can't make the right decision .. you cannot EVER criticize Kaaya for bad decision making

 

[IHeagledriver]

Careful biggie...
Married lasts a long time..!

Not in this day and time, most of the people I know and have read about in this generation treat married life like it's just something to do. JMO

 

[IHeagledriver]

Help with a scenario, I have been dating this girl for about 6 months I thought she was the one until I got to really know her, she has some great qualities for a wife but I'm not physically attracted to her at all.... Nothing, zero, you out of here.......! What should a brotha do?

Go with your heart. and good luck to you no matter what you decide

 

[biggee04]

Not in this day and time, most of the people I know and have read about in this generation treat married life like it's just something to do. JMO

I agree brother, I'm a one women type of guy, yes the thrill is tempting but I rather have that should nuff than the chase

 

[papii]

Help with a scenario, I have been dating this girl for about 6 months I thought she was the one until I got to really know her, she has some great qualities for a wife but I'm not physically attracted to her at all.... Nothing, zero, you out of here.......! What should a brotha do?

u need to ask urself da question, is she strong where u r weak....dis is a cruel world homie....does she take ur mind off da streets

 

[IHeagledriver]

I agree brother, I'm a one women type of guy, yes the thrill is tempting but I rather have that should nuff than the chase

My son went through many girls and he was like you always loyal and dedicated to them, but he was never happy and they always broke up, so he comes to me asking my advice and this is what I told him. Quit running after them, let them come to you, and get rid of those high maintenance bitches you like to bone. If you want to be happy find a nice quiet country girl that knows how to work, how to keep herself up, has a job, and no tat's. he thought i was crazy and on May 7 he was married to a really wonderful woman. Hopefully it will be forever after. The only thing that I know about women is that if they want to be with you and really dig on you they will let you know.

 

[bunky2]

Help with a scenario, I have been dating this girl for about 6 months I thought she was the one until I got to really know her, she has some great qualities for a wife but I'm not physically attracted to her at all.... Nothing, zero, you out of here.......! What should a brotha do?

What you don't have in her can not be manufactured! In fact, it's just
as unfair to her as it is to you! Sex is a very important part of a relationship! If you are not physically attracted to her, you and her should be gone!

GO CANES!

 

[pittman3j]

Help with a scenario, I have been dating this girl for about 6 months I thought she was the one until I got to really know her, she has some great qualities for a wife but I'm not physically attracted to her at all.... Nothing, zero, you out of here.......! What should a brotha do?

Your looking for a wife not a woman? My best advice is ask the Lord is she your wife. Remember, what's up will fall, what's slim will round, nothing stays the same in life. However, a woman raises to be a good wife is priceless.

 

[bunky2]

Your looking for a wife not a woman? My best advice is ask the Lord is she your wife. Remember, what's up will fall, what's slim will round, nothing stays the same in life. However, a woman raises to be a good wife is priceless.

I agree, nothing remains the same! Mates are selected by natural selection! U approach a female
because,you saw something U liked! By the same token, a female will let you know she is interested! And, if you feel the same way, we have a match. There is no substitute for physical attractiveness!
Time takes it's toll on our appearances, but we will forever be attracted to the woman of our desires!
GO CANES!